“I am empowered to be me.” – Paul Finck

Do you act like you at all times or are there times you act differently because you think you should?

One of the comments I get so often is I’m very real. This usually comes from people after they get to spend some time with me in both a social and training/business setting. They often admit they thought part of my persona had to be a “stage” me acting differently in front of a group than with those I know closest. This used to be true until a few years ago… and I didn’t even realize it!

When I started speaking more on stage quite a few years ago, I had one of my colleagues ask me why I changed into a drill instructor looking to tell the audience what they needed to do to make a change in their life. This colleague knew me personally outside of this event and saw the big difference when I was on stage. I never realized there was such a big difference.

This feedback gave me the opportunity to consciously make a choice on whether I wanted to be a stage persona and then be the regular me everyone knew when I was off stage or do something different than what I was currently doing. I had thought I needed to be more the drill instructor type on stage to be effective. At that point I empowered myself to be me at all times.

I changed what I did from that point forward. I changed my presentation and empowered myself to just be me at all times. With the permission I had given myself to just be me at all times an unexpected thing happened – even more people have been drawn to me. This comes from the fact when people see you are congruent at all times, they feel comfortable with you, they want to be around you and they trust you.

It also made my coaching more effective for my students because it attracted people who liked me and wanted what I had. They felt a draw to me and were willing to take the action steps necessary to create the life they wanted.

The decision to empower myself and let others see the real me is one of those defining moments in life. The decision of allowing myself to be me at all times is one of the reasons my business has taken off and the opportunities keep coming.

I knew I wanted to share it with you in case you are doing the same thing – being one person with those you are close to and another in front of everyone else. Be congruent in who you are at all times. Empower yourself to be you. You will find the people you really want in your life. And the results which come from it are amazing!

Do It Different!
 

Paul Finck

The Maverick Millionaire®

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“The way I do anything is the way I do everything.” – Paul Finck

One of my favorite sayings because it is so very true. Do you approach everything in your life the same way – with the same positive energy, with the same drive and determination, with the same focus on quality?

I always look for consistency in those I surround myself. When I notice them acting one way when we are in private and another way when we are in public, it makes me take notice. One of my strengths is I am the same person no matter what and approach my life with the same energy, drive, focus and FUN at all times.

Since I do this, those around me notice I am consistent and they feel more at ease with me. This leads to more opportunities in many ways since people like to work with people they are comfortable around. Nice side effect of just being who I am at all times.

This also goes back to the idea that the way you practice anything is what your body and mind get used to doing when they encounter a certain type of situation. When I played soccer, my coaches always wanted us to practice the same way we would play in a game – same intensity, same focus, same mindset. Why? They knew if we practiced this way, during the game we would react the same way. Makes the result more predictable for all involved.

Approaching life with this attitude of the way I do anything is the way I do everything just makes sense. I want the most out of my life. To get the most out of my life, I have to show up in the same way for everything – whether it’s shuttling the kids to practice or the dentist, reviewing notes from previous coaching calls before getting on the phone with one of my students, hanging out with family and friends on my pool deck or training hundreds of people at an event – I want to provide and receive the maximum value. I do this by being the Ultimate Me at all times.

Are you ready to step into this same kind of commitment to design the life of your dreams?

Do It Different!
 

Paul Finck

The Maverick Millionaire®

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Here is one of my Paul’s Pick Me Ups from this week with a great training lesson for you.  These Paul’s Pick Me Ups are a part of my Chain Breakers Club Membership Program.  These members receive Pick Me Ups like this daily in their inbox along with many other great benefits of the Chain Breakers Club.

Enjoy your Paul’s Pick Me Up for this week:

“The way I do anything is the way I do everything.” – Paul Finck 

How do you your daily activities?  Do you approach each one with the same energy, passion and positive mindset?  If not, why not?

Think about it for a moment.  Would you get better results if you attacked the tasks which were the ones you dreaded doing with the same passion as the ones you love to do?  Of course you will.  This congruency in your effort in all you do sets the bar high for all activities.  A higher bar leads to higher Principle Targets which will lead to more success in your life.   

Utilizing this approach also has another benefit on top of feeding the increased results in all areas of your life.  It creates an energy around you which others will notice.  It will actually draw them to you.  When people see you are always full of energy, they want to be around you.  

Having more connections and contacts feeds your whole life and business.  This same high level of energy and optimistic mindset attracts the same type of person to you meaning better quality of contacts.  This better quality of contacts leads to better opportunities in your life.   Better opportunities  builds more of the kind of life you are looking to create for yourself.

You see the change which will happen in your life just by making small adjustments to your overall approach.  If you have never used this same energy and mindset for all of your activities, I challenge  you to begin doing everything in your life with this same energy and positive, optimistic, opportunistic mindset.  The results from doing just this will amaze you.  

Are you ready for this next step to break the chains holding you down?

 

Do It Different!

Paul Finck

The Maverick Millionaire

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