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“I’m either growing or dying – There is no state of standing still.” – Paul Finck  

What are you doing in your life now – growing or dying?  Why am I unable to be just maintaining and staying in the same spot you ask.  This is a different concept for many to grasp since many figure they are happy just staying at the level they are now in their life.  Their is a huge challenge in this thinking.

Think about it as if you are a tree among other trees in a clearing all starting out at about the same height.  As a tree, you decide to stop growing for right now and maintain your current height because it fits you well.  You are tall enough.  You just want to enjoy some of your surroundings.  You are happy and comfortable.

Well the other trees keep right on growing as you just hang out at your current height.  Soon, they are much taller than you.  Their leaves block out the sun.  Their roots are deeper and spread out further so they absorb more of the nutrients and water from the soil.  The other trees are taking all the elements necessary for you to live.  You decide you want to grow now to take your place among the rest of the trees.  

Unfortunately, the other trees have gotten so big around you, there is no way to grow any longer.  And worse yet, they are taking all the resources you need to even maintain yourself at the height you are at now.  The only thing left to happen is for you to slowly wither and die.  So when you as the tree made a choice to just maintain yourself, you unconsciously made the choice to die.  

This same reality plays out in the world every day when people or companies to choose to be happy and comfortable with where they are right now.  If you stop growing, sooner or later, you will end up dying just like the tree.  Which do you want in your life?  You are consciously or unconsciously making this decision every day.  Choose wisely.  Your life depends on it.

  

Breaking Your Chains!

Paul Finck

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“Pretend that every single person you meet has a sign around his or her neck that says, “Make me feel important.” Not only will you succeed in sales, you will succeed in life.” – Mary Kay Ash  

Do you approach everybody with this type of attitude?  Do you ask about them to get to know them?  Do you find out what they need in their life at this moment? 

When you ask questions of everyone you meet to truly find out about them, you are able to find ways to help each other.  They literally will show you how to work with them in one way or another.  Every person wants to feel like they are important which you show by listening and looking for ways to help.   

The big secret here is to do this without having an agenda of what you are looking to do with them.  People can see and feel that coming.  Just be in the moment with them conversing and truly looking for ways to help them out.  Be of service to them and watch what emerges from your interactions.

Now outside of the doing this with the new people you meet, think of ways to do the same with the people you already know.  How much deeper will this build your connections?  How much more will you bring into their lives and in turn, your life?  Time to make those who come into your life feel as important as they truly are.    

Breaking Your Chains!

Paul Finck

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“I can only control me.” – Paul Finck  

Please read today’s Pick Me Up again.  Now think about how you run your life.  

  • Do you stress over whether others do what you think they should do?  
  • Have you ever almost pushed someone down the highway in your car because they were going too slow?  
  • Or have you ever gotten so frustrated because a client, employee or partner didn’t do what you expected them to do in the time frame you expected it?  
  • Did you ever get upset because someone didn’t do a task the exact way you would have done it?
  • Have you ever said it’s hard to find good employees, partners or clients when you’ve been disappointed by one of the same?

If you answered yes to any of these questions you are very much like many entrepreneurs I know.  They expect people to do any action the way they would… and when they don’t, the frustration and stress level shoot up quickly.  Do you realize why?  

You got it – they want to control the result of the activity.  

Now this is nearly impossible in most circumstances because you are working with people.  People are all different and process their decisions differently.  Would you like to know the key to reducing this stress?  Just repeat today’s Pick Me Up.  The only part of this world you can control is you.  

The biggest influencer on your happiness and success is how you act and react to any situation.  It’s your choice in every interaction.  You choose whether to allow an outside activity to affect you at that moment.  When you control your reaction and emotions, you will be much more successful in all areas of your life.  

How you react = Your Success.

Why you ask.  The more emotional you get about any action, the less intelligent you get because the emotions override the intellect.  They work inversely to each other. A raised level of emotions, lowers the level of intelligence being used at that moment.  When you choose to stay calm and choose to release the stress and frustration, you are able to make much more intelligence driven choices versus emotion driven choices.   This is controlling you.  

Are you ready to be more effective in your daily life?  Remember and repeat today’s Paul‘s Pick Me Up any time you start thinking “they should have…”.  This controls the only area you can control consistently.

 

 

Breaking Your Chains!

Paul Finck

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“What I visualize I energize!” – Paul Finck 

Have you taken the time to visualize the results you want in your life in the last week? If not, when was the last time you did?  Are you getting the results you want as fast as you want?

One of the processes which has helped me immensely in my success is visualization.  When you visualize the results you want in vivid detail including the emotions you feel, what you see, how everything smells, what you hear your mind sees it as already having happened.  Now the important part is involving as many senses as possible.  The more senses the more real your mind perceives it as having happened.

When your mind sees the results you want as already happening, your mind believes it is possible to do again since it has already happened once.  This is the same result achieved by athletes who practice over and over the same action so their body and mind get used to seeing, feeling, touching and experiencing the result they want.  

After visualization, when you encounter the opportunities to create this exact results, your mind will recognize them and help you step into them since it knows the result.  This will energize your progress forward creating your success faster.

I use this consistently in my life to create the results I want and have for years.  Make sure to ask me about it at our next Mindset Mastery Experience event so I can share even more with you.  

Are you ready to energize your results?  Start making visualization a part of your daily action items.

Breaking Your Chains!

Paul Finck

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 “The key to abundance is meeting limited circumstances with unlimited thoughts.” – Marianne Williamson  

I have found this to be a key in creating all the success I have created in my life.  Most people, when faced with a problem, focus on the problem itself.  They see it as limiting.  Many view the challenge as lacking the resources or knowledge to resolve the issue.

Successful people view every challenge as an opportunity.  The opportunity to uncover a solution with their minds.  The only challenge is finding the correct resource or information to get passed the problem.

The only difference is the way the successful person views the challenge.  Viewing it as an opportunity provides you the chance to step up and create something new and better.  By knowing there is a solution for every challenge, their mind is opened up to unlimited thoughts to create the resolution.

The next time you find yourself stuck in a problem, remind yourself there is a solution to every challenge.  Then ask yourself, how can I resolve this current challenge.  Make sure to allow all thoughts to flow through to you – whether you feel they are legitimate solutions or not.  By allowing the free flow of every thought, your ideas will come more readily allowing your mind’s unlimited potential the opportunity to find your solution.

By facing any challenge this way, you will create abundance for yourself since you will always be able to find the answer to any question or challenge.  You choose whether to live in abundance or lack based on the questions you ask yourself and the thoughts you allow to grow.  Choose appropriately. 

Breaking Your Chains!

Paul Finck

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“If you don’t value your time, neither will others. Stop giving away your time and talents. Value what you know & start charging for it.” – Kim Garst 

How do you value your time?  Do you just give it away without thinking about what it is worth?  This is very common among entrepreneurs.  I work with so many business owners, coaches and trainers who have never charged anywhere close to the value they provide… or even just give away their knowledge. 

One thing I learned is when you value your time, and charge for it accordingly, others value the advice and direction coming out of your time together.  When you give your time away you actually could be cheating the other person out of ever making the change necessary to create more in their life and getting any results at all.

Think how many people you know who are quick to give you advice, sometimes without even being asked for it.  Do you pay as much attention to them as you do someone you are paying for what could be the same advice? 

What is the difference between the two?  One easy to identify difference is because you have invested money in whatever area they are helping you.  When another person has a resource of their own invested, they tend to take more action than if the assistance is given away.

Now the flip side is the best part because it creates a win-win for both parties.  Since they are paying you for your time, you are making additional income working with people who are more serious about taking action in their lives and creating change.  The additional income is fantastic!  The added bonus is the people who value your time are often easier to work with and are willing to do whatever it takes to create the change they want in their life. 

Are you ready to start valuing your time correctly while creating better results for others at the same time?  Click here to spend more time with me so we can create this exact result in your life.

Breaking Your Chains!

Paul Finck

 

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“You manifest what you believe, not what you want.” -Sonia Ricotti 

Take a minute and look at the results you have achieved so far in your life.  Now think about all the dreams and goals you have had at one point or another.  What was different for the goals you had where you succeeded versus the ones you came up short on?

Typically, one of the biggest differences lies in the belief the goal was possible.  Working with the number of students I have over the years, one of the areas I usually work on is expanding the possibilities in their lives.  I do this to help them achieve greater results than they ever imagined possible before working with me.

The key ingredient for their success after expanding their minds is buying in to the reality their goals and dreams are possible for them to reach.  This belief is what gives you the ability to act confidently. 

Often this belief comes through walking them through the action steps to achieve their ultimate vision.  Once they see the steps laid out, the belief is easier.  The path has been explained.

Any time you have a large goal where you feel yourself doubting whether it is achievable, take the time to map out the action plan.  If you are getting stuck at any point, reach out to a mentor like me who is able to provide the knowledge you need to complete the plan. 

Make sure you get to the stage where you believe your goal will happen.  It will determine your success.  Anything short of complete belief will leave you short of your desired result.

Breaking Your Chains!

Paul Finck

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“Education costs money.  But then so does ignorance.” – Sir Claus Moser

Do you continually invest in yourself every year?  The most successful people in the world are constantly investing in themselves.  They continue to read, study, and get coached by others.   

When I first learned the most successful business owners never stopped learning and investing in themselves, I made the commitment to take the same steps they do.  In my life, I have invested over $250,000 in my education – not counting college.  This is the reason I have created the life I have today.  

 Many would say this is way too much to spend on your education, especially on top of the college education.  The one key to my success I am sure of is without this continued investment to learn what I didn’t know – and oftentimes, didn’t even know I didn’t know – there is no way I would have created the amazing life I lead now.  How many opportunities would I have missed in my life because I wasn’t even aware they were there until I received the education and training to identify them.  

 This would have been a tremendous cost in missed opportunity not only for myself.  It would have been a huge cost for my family because I would never have been able to show them how to create the life they want.  

 Sounds like a much higher price to me if I would have let the educational investments keep me from moving forward.  Which cost would you rather incur in your life?

Breaking Your Chains!

Paul Finck

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“If you’re looking for the next big thing, and you’re looking where everyone else is, you’re looking in the wrong place.” – Mark Cuban 

Where do you look for your next big opportunity?  Many people tend to follow the masses and what they are doing.  That’s why they call these people the masses – there are a lot of them.

The challenge is, by the time the masses hear about and begin taking action in an area, most of the tremendous opportunity is already gone.  People are competing on price which means profits are being squeezed.  

Think about the explosive growth companies –  Apple, Microsoft, Google, Uber, Facebook.  These companies were in at the beginning of their industries with little to no competition… and often without even an industry in place yet.  They created entire industries based on their success.

The largest opportunities for huge success come from exploring areas no one else is in.  This is exactly what the founders of the companies listed above did.    Doing the same allows for the explosive growth most entrepreneurs dream about.  As a bonus, even when competitors come in, they still must tackle the giant to be successful.  It creates a competitive advantage for you.

Look for ideas which address a human need or desire in a new way which no one else is doing.  Then look for a method to deliver the solution to this need.  This will provide you the opportunity to be the next big thing in our world.  

 

Breaking Your Chains!

Paul Finck

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“Cut your excuses in half and double your actions around your goals.” – Robin Sharma 

Do you want to fast track your success?  Are you ready to do something different to get something different in your life?  One of the fastest ways to jump start your success in all areas of your life is to take action on today’s quote. 

In life there are one of two outcomes to any action – excuses or results.  When you cut your excuses in half, your results go up.  They have what is called an inverse relationship.  When one rises the other falls.  

The average person comes with a list of excuses when an action is left unfinished.  Just think of some of your interactions with others when they have come up short.  They always have a reason.  When you are ready to step your game up to the next level, eliminating the excuses in your life is one of the best ways to make dramatic, noticeable improvement quickly.

The reason why dropping the excuses makes such a large difference is you now will step up your actions to ensure you accomplish the outcome desired.  You have eliminated the excuse clause in your life.  By eliminating the excuses, you create a will do attitude to drive you to find solutions to challenges when they arise.  This “how can I” viewpoint will serve you well and increase your results dramatically.

Eliminating the excuses will cause you to double your actions.  It feeds this commitment perfectly since you will want to take more action to create your results to avoid the excuse monster.  When you take more actions, you will inevitably achieve more success.  When you achieve more success, the reliance on excuses goes down.  It creates a vicious success cycle which keeps feeding on itself.  

Are you ready to start your own success cycle?  When you answer yes, cut the excuses in half and double the actions.  Time to get excited about the results coming to you soon!

 

Breaking Your Chains!

Paul Finck

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